Consent and Boundaries in Roleplay Chat (18+): Scripts, Checklists, and Safer Scenes

Consent is not "policy wording". It's the difference between a scene that feels exciting and safe and a scene that breaks trust.

This post is SFW. The goal is practical: a few scripts you can copy, one escalation rule, and the red flags that mean you should stop.

The four-part setup (do this once, early)

A clean consent setup has four parts:

1. What you want (tone / vibe)
2. Hard limits (plain language)
3. Pace (slow / medium / fast)
4. Escalation rule ("ask before escalating")

If you do nothing else, send one message like this (SFW):

"Keep it confident and respectful. Slow pace. Ask before escalating. No humiliation."

Boundary scripts (copy/paste)

Script A: short and clear

"Romantic + teasing. Slow pace. Ask before escalating. Hard no: humiliation."

Script B: confident, structured

"Playful and confident, but respectful. Slow burn. Check in before anything more intense. No coercion."

Script C: yes/no/maybe (still SFW)

"Yes: flirting and tension. No: insults or humiliation. Maybe: bolder language, but ask first."

The escalation ladder (a rule that prevents most problems)

Most consent failures happen because escalation is assumed.

Use a ladder:

1. Tone (sweet vs teasing vs intense)
2. Proximity (more personal / closer)
3. Intensity (stronger language / stronger dynamic)
4. Scene commitment (roles, rules, commitments)

Add one guardrail line:

"Check in before moving up a step."

Red flags (when to stop)

Stop the scene if you see:

• pushing after you say "no"
• testing hard limits repeatedly
• ignoring your pace request (rushing)
• turning a boundary into a challenge

You do not owe a debate. You can reset or stop.

A simple "pause" line that works

Even in text roleplay, a safeword concept helps. Here's a clean version:

"Pause. Reset. Slow down and check in with me."

Then follow with one question:

• "How are you feeling?"
• "Do you want to continue, change tone, or stop?"

What is not allowed (high level)

Loviechat is adults-only (18+) and prohibits content including (not exhaustive):

• any sexual content involving minors or "teen"-coded content
• non-consensual sexual content (rape/coercion)
• bestiality
• incest
• sexual violence / extreme violence
• trafficking / exploitation themes

Try it

• Browse character previews: Browse characters
• Start a private chat: Start chat
• Consent baseline: Read the Terms (18+)
• If something goes wrong: Contact support
• Read next: Aftercare prompts